Coach Bob does porn

"Cyber-stalking" is an ugly word. An ugly hyphenated word. But thats what Ive done over the years to Jim Ferro nee Bob Basile. Let me explain.

It all began fairly innocently when I found the photo below on the web. Totally spank worthy, no? I put it in my "hot guys" folder on my computer and filed it away for later self pleasure. Imagine my surprise when I later see the same muscle daddy cruising down 8th Avenue. Wow, I think, what are the odds? He lives in my little old town of 8 million. Then I happen upon his Manhunt and adam4adam profiles, innocently once more. I do send him a cursory "you're hot" email and get back a simple "thanks". Not what I was dreaming of him saying, I figure sexually we were incompatible even if he had been interested (He's a big bad powertop who likes fucking raw and has a huge PA...and I'm just a little too vanilla for all that). His profile contains some literary gems such as "no pic, no dick" an "If I strike oil its over, so be prepared", along with some truly stunning photos. So what do I do? I can't just let it go, like a normal person who is shot down online... So I instead become a "pic collector"--scanning his various profiles for hot pictures of him as the years go by. I know that's in questionable taste but the pics are public record I figure. Arrest me.

When I discovered his Big Muscle profile, I also discovered his name: Bob Basile. Turns out he is a personal trainer (natch) and life coach who sometimes goes by the moniker "coach bob" (hot). Although truth be told I wouldn't want to take too much life coaching advice from a habitual bare backer. Did that sound bitchy? To each his own, I guess. I would take a training session though. Yowee, is that guy a hot, stacked daddy. And he's 52 years old! I pray I look that good at any point in my life. Maybe he's onto something with that barebackin' and dick piercin' shit.

I have held back on writing about him before since he's not really a public figure and I didn't want to publish him name, etc. But lately some other gay blogs scooped me and featured him anyway. Plus he answered my prayers and solved my ethical dilemma by doing a new porno for Titan as Jim Ferro called "Stockroom". It looks a little fetishy for my tastes, but he sure fills out that rubber uniform nicely. So now that he is a public figure, here's the fruits on my stalking: